Will I give divorce to my addictive husband? Or taking care of him is better way?
But I cannot take it anymore when he is drunk!!!
Came to right place dear… please calm down…
Dealing with addictive person on daily life is just battling with life. Nothing can give you a peace of mind. And when it goes out of control, naturally the relationship breaks.
So we have met with each other to deal with the addiction and help you out in relationship issues.
A ray of hope in your black and gray life
Hopingly I can solve your issues and will try to do so as much as possible.
It’s not always the wives… there are many husbands, children, parents who can also face this same situation. I am writing this article for both of you irrespective of any gender and relationships.
You are into the activities of being angry, arguing, preventing, obsessing and what not. But why the addictive person is doing? Paying no heed and just continuing with the drinking or drug addiction.
So just change your attitude…
Attitude is everything that can make you stand out
Turn to yourself and change the focus. Keep it only on you and show love to yourself only. Be positive about you and get concern about your activities.
Start with the process of stopping all the yelling to the addictive person. Get silent with the person and start ignoring. Slowly you will get habituated how to overlook their actions anyhow.
How is that possible when I am at the same house with the person?
That’s tough!!! Ignoring a person in front of your eyes is not easy as told.
So here you need to detach with love…
Sounds contradictory, right?
What does that mean? Getting away from the house? Or just put the person out of the house???
Nothing of the above… it’s a different concept.
The person who is addictive can be anyone- husband, wife, parents, and children friends… anyone who is being loved. Just an addiction cannot take away the love from heart. So don’t stop loving that person. But start ignoring them to make them realize.
Well, at the inception I must tell, it’s a very slow process. You need to have dedication and patience too. You need to make the impossible the possible one.
Just accept the fact that you are having an addictive person in your life. For which you are not at all responsible. So get your lives going without the significant role of the addictive person. Slowly it will be in your habit and it not tough at all.
In a nutshell
Do you know what you will get with this process?
Peace of mind, satisfaction in heart and also a positive attitude to stand up in the society…
Ignorance can give you all these. But be patience and have the determination to continue the task.
Trust me… you would feel much better and would experience a promotion on your life. Don’t stop your life from growing. It’s your own life and no one should ruin it for unknown reason of addiction. Addiction makes you fall apart in life and get to an end. But don’t do it when you are into the right solution. Start to practice the process form now onwards.
Surely you would be habituated with it within few days.
Hope you have got a solution for you problem now!!!